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As soon as she felt the distance and gap between you start to open up (no returns on her *I love you*s, etc.) she started to pull you in more. This is what all guys should keep in mind when they manage to hook a woman who has some interest in them. Stepping back when you've established some interest gives her the space and freedom to pull you back in.
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Signal #1. He has reason(s) to travel consistently or frequently.
If your man has a job or hobby that requires consistent and/or frequent travel--look out. According to experienced private investigators, this is the NUMBER ONE cover for a second, or even a third, hidden family life. Signal #2. YOU are in the dark about his TRUE financial income and/or holdings. Does he have complete autonomy of the household finances? Whether he does or not, how do you know he doesn't have bank accounts you may not know about? Are you sure he doesn't have trust funds, mutual funds, IRA's, stocks and bonds, or even annuities hidden from you? How about credit cards? A credit report may be a good place to check on those. |
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Confidence isn't a state you achieve, although it can occasionally feel this way. Confidence is a cycle, a treadmill, if you will, that you need to learn how to initiate for yourself.
You see, confidence feeds back on itself, and this in turn (like a nuclear reactor with its control rods pulled out) creates a chain reaction of energy that only serves to elevate you to the next level. Nothing succeeds like success. If you're confident in yourself, there's no way she can bring you down. |
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The guy nervously approaches, and will either NERVOUSLY say something extremely BORING or DRY or GOOFY, or COMPLIMENTARY. Plus his eyes are darting nervously around, AS IF HE IS GUILTY OF SOMETHING. As if being sexual is not something he deserves.
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