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TRY BEFORE YOU BUY
Any personals site worthwhile will be happy to prove it to you. Browse the ads, place your own ad, search for the real type of person that you want in your life. When you have found enough people that you are interested in meeting, join the club. Don't limit yourself to one club. You don't shop in only one store, don't limit your choices here either. Know that eventually you'll have to pay for a singles service, but don't base your choice on price alone, find a service that has plenty of members that you'd like to trade messages with and jump in! |
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But the truth is, you should NOT be appealing to this side of her, since it runs COMPLETELY COUNTER to her sense of SEXUAL DESIRE for a man. By trying to *woo* her with being *nice*, you are, on a sexual level, telling her that you have NO MASCULINE TRAITS, that you are instead are trying to *beg* her for her companionship by doing favors.
A woman wants a man who seems like a MAN- and in her brain, a man is THE HUNTER, THE EMOTIONALLY COOL, THE CONFIDENT DEFENDER, THE BRAVE. *Nice* is really not part of it. And actually, *nice* in the sense of begging for approval from anyone, including from her, and constantly trying to win her affection, or being *clingy*, actually seems to her more like you are NOT truly NICE, just truly PATHETIC. And NOT a MAN. |
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I did my part by demonstrating good faith in making the first installment investment, which every guy should do. That initial investment is your effort to get to that first date or meeting with her (introducing yourself, getting the phone number, calling her, setting the date). Everything after this point MUST have a return on your investment.
What kind of *return* are you looking for? |
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